Struggling with Upsetting News? A Sense of Perspective Will Help

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I went to see Gladiator 2 at the weekend. It wasn’t exactly my cup of tea – a bit too much blood and gore for my taste – but I went with my son, Ben, so getting to hang out with him is always such a pleasure. And alongside all the sweaty torsos, sandals and swordplay, I found something strangely and unexpectedly comforting about the movie. It got me thinking about human history and all the tumultuous times we have been through, as a species. And how living in ancient Rome would have been much worse, scarier and harder for the vast majority of the population than being alive now.

If you, like me, are feeling a bit freaked out by the state of the world right now, we need all the help we can get. The seismic US election result, which made half the population happy but the other half – and much of the rest of the world – deeply anxious and uncertain about what comes next. War, that most pointless and awful of human creations, raging in the Middle East, Ukraine, Sudan and many other places not deemed worthy of the media’s attention. The rise of populist strongmen, around the world. Climate change, which is really scary. It’s already bad and will, I’m afraid, get worse over time.

I know many of you struggle with anxiety, so this post is not meant to make you more anxious! It’s just important to face reality, even if it’s scary and hard, as anxiety and avoidance are always intertwined – and avoiding scary things just makes them scarier, unfortunately. So, rather than hiding in a cupboard, here are three things that are helping me right now and will, I hope, help you feel a bit less bothered about the state of the world:

Develop a sense of perspective

One of the great gifts, but also curses, of our hi-tech age is that we can now access 24/7 news about anywhere in the world. This is very new, and very hard, for our hunter-gatherer-evolved brains to cope with. If there is a flood in Pakistan or train crash in Peru, we will know about it almost instantly. That means our highly threat-focused brains are in a constant state of alert, as if the threat might affect us or our loved ones. This is also, of course, how both mainstream and social media work – they scare, upset and outrage us so we keep reading, clicking and scrolling. This is built in to platforms like Facebook or Twitter. It’s not a bug. It is a deliberate and highly successful strategy.

I’m not going to offer advice about quitting social media, there is plenty of that available already. I’m just pointing out that, although we do face some very real and serious challenges right now, we are also made to feel as if everything is awful, all the time, and there is nothing much we can do about it except keep reading, clicking and scrolling. Instead, try to have a sense of perspective.

For example, something that often confuses me is when I hear people say we are ‘harming the planet’ with all our short-sighted human behaviour. That’s just not possible – the Earth has been around for 4.5 billion years and has experienced every kind of wild meterological and climactic change you can imagine – inconceivably vast volcanic eruptions that filled the atmosphere with noxious gases and dust, causing conditions that were deeply hostile to life; or Snowball Earth, when the whole planet was encased in a thick layer of ice on two occasions, the worst being around 600-700 million years ago. Scientists think this ice age lasted for millions of years. Somehow, life hung on – it has existed on this planet for four billion years and will exist long after humans do.

Of course, the fact that the planet has been through climate change before does not mean this, industry/human-powered cycle of change is not real. It very much is – and I am passionate about doing all we can to slow the course of climate change. And we can do this, the science tells us that, if we all stop eating so much meat, flying, driving polluting vehicles, pressure corporations and governments to act with more urgency, and all the other things we can to protect this miraculous, beautiful planet for ourselves, our children and grandchildren.

Enough with the doom-scrolling

In the run-up to the US election I was devouring everything I could find online about the race, as if somehow just knowing everything could magically influence the result. Since the result, which was not what I hoped for, I have taken a big step back from the news. I de-politicised my Instagram feed, for example, because I just don’t need a blow by blow of every scary thing that will be happening over the next four years. I also have stopped hopping from news site to news site, because it’s just too much for my frazzled brain right now.

That’s not to say we should just tune out or give up. Absolutely not. It’s vital to do all we can, about climate change and the natural world, social and racial justice, the welfare of immigrants and refugees, LGBTQ rights, abortion and women’s health, democracy – all the hard-won, precious things that are under threat right now. I have spoken often in these posts of taking compassionate action, when we feel anxious, upset or overwhelmed. That means marching, organising, writing to your elected officials, signing petitions, boycotting the worst corporations, and donating to charities/non-profits who are doing incredible things every day – you can donate to one of my favourites, the WWF, right now by clicking the button below.

Give love & Kindness in abundance

As the media becomes increasingly skilful at pushing the buttons of your evolutionarily ancient, threat-focused ‘subcortical’ brain regions – the structures in your brain that fire up during the fight-flight-freeze response, and are laser-focused on protecting your tribe and territory, not remotely rational or well-adapted for 21st-century life – my suggestion is that we do the exact opposite. The world does not need any more fear, hatred, hostility or division. It needs our love. Our compassion. Our prosocial goodness. Small example, but I was on the Tube, coming home from the movie with Ben, and saw one man tapping another man’s knee, pointing out the wallet he had dropped on the floor. The other man beamed with gratitude and it was just so sweet, so wholesome – the best of humanity on show in that small gesture.

There is a wise Buddhist teaching: ‘Every human mind contains the seeds of Jesus Christ and the seeds of Hitler’. Meaning, our old, subcortical brain can be fired up into fear, hatred, othering, blaming all our complex problems on immigrants, or trans people, or those with views and values we dislike. But our new, quintessentially human cortical brain has other capacities: love, warmth, kindness, compassion, trust, hope, finding joy in giving and helping others. I know which seeds I would like to help flourish in my brain and I’m sure you do too.

Love, randomly and abundantly. Help others, because it feels so good to you and those you help – like the men on the Tube. Spread ripples of kindness and goodness that start with your friends, family, community or a non-profit close to your heart. And our ripples will meet these scary waves of anger and fear and, bit by bit, dilute them into something better, more positive and hopeful for the future.

I will leave you with another profound, oft-quoted saying, from Martin Luther King: ‘Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.’

Love,

Dan ❤️

If You Struggle With Climate Anxiety, this Book Will Give You Hope

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How do you feel about climate change? I’m guessing that, like most of us who take this problem seriously, you might find it worrying but try not to think about it too much. You do what you can – eat less meat, try not to fly, sign endless petitions – but try not to let it dominate your day-to-day life.

On a good day, this is how I deal with it too – doing what I can but trying not to get too freaked out. But I have to be honest, on bad days it really scares me. We are already seeing major impacts like melting glaciers, climate change-intensified hurricanes, forest fires, droughts and flooding. And unless humanity wakes up soon, we are in big trouble.

I think one of the less-reported aspects of climate change is its impact on our mental health, especially among the young. In a YouGov survey last year, one in three young people in Britain reported feeling scared (33%), sad (34%) or pessimistic (34%) about climate change, with 28% feeling ‘overwhelmed’. This breaks my heart for those young people, but it’s not surprising, because they will be most affected by climate change throughout the course of their lifetime. If you are a parent or grandparent, you may also be deeply worried about the kind of planet we will bequeath the next generation and the one after that – this is one reason why so many eco-activists are grandparents. They get it and feel compelled to act.

Reasons to be hopeful

So far, so gloomy. Which is why I am happy to tell you about the book I am currently reading, Not the End of the World: Why We Can Be the First Generation to Build a Sustainable Planet, by Hannah Ritchie. She is a data scientist at Oxford University and tells the story of feeling so freaked out as a student studying Earth Sciences, that she almost changed career. The onslaught of anxiety-provoking lectures on her course – and especially the stories about climate disasters she obsessively read in the media – were just overwhelming.

But this is a profoundly hopeful and optimistic book, because Ritchie argues that when you look at the actual data and key trends in energy use, pollution reduction, and so on, the real story is very different from the one we see in the media.

Let me be clear: Ritchie is no climate denier. She is a scientist who understands and accepts the prevailing scientific view – that climate change is real, it’s happening now, is man-made and unless we act fast to limit rising temperatures, humanity and all life on Earth is in big trouble. It’s just that she makes a compelling case that we have already made huge strides, at unprecedented speed, for example in decarbonising our energy production. In many industrialised countries we have virtually phased out the most polluting/carbon-emitting coal-fired power stations and rapidly developed green energies like solar, wind, hydroelectric and (somewhat controversially) nuclear.

Clean energy is now cheaper than its fossil-fuel alternatives and this will accelerate the more we adopt it at scale. This change is inevitable – as is the switch to electric cars/buses/trucks. As the cost of these green energies and modes of transport plummets, there is literally no reason not to make the switch, despite the increasingly devious and desperate tactics of the fossil-fuel industry. Sorry folks, this change is inevitable, whether you want it to be or not.

We have solved global problems before

Another argument I found really powerful and persuasive is that the global community has overcome two major environmental challenges before: acid rain in the 1980s and the ozone hole in the 1990s. In both cases, these were serious problems that required the global community to work together, despite resistance from the polluting industries that were causing the problems. And what led to the changes? Intense pressure from the public.

This led politicians to act, global treaties to be signed, industry to grudgingly change its polluting behaviour and, in both cases, drastic reductions in the harm to our environment. Now, climate change is a much bigger and more complex problem, but Ritchie argues – and I strongly believe – that if we all put enough pressure on our politicians, as well as using our consumer power to boycott the most climate-wrecking corporations/energy sources, we can solve this problem.

So if you or someone you love is struggling with climate anxiety, I strongly recommend you buy this book. It’s also packed with suggestions about how we, as individuals and communities, can make changes in the way we eat, shop and travel that can make a big difference. I am feeling hopeful about this problem for the first time in years, so I hope it will help you feel the same way too.

Sending you love and warm thoughts ❤️

Dan

Are You Anxious About Climate Change? Taking Compassionate Action Will Help

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My mission in life is to help people feel calmer, safer and more at peace. That’s what I do, all day, in my therapy practice. It’s what I try to do in my teaching and writing, including these posts for my blog. The last thing I would ever want is to make you, my lovely reader, feel more anxious.

But if there is one thing we should all feel anxious about right now, it’s climate change. That’s because the science overwhelmingly tells us that climate change is real, humans are causing it, it’s here right now and will only get worse, unless we take drastic action to minimise the damage. After a summer in which most of southern Europe seemed to be on fire, today’s news brings another terrible wildfire, fanned by hurricane-strength winds.

This time it’s in Hawaii and has caused devastation, as well as a tragic number of fatalities, on the island of Maui. Let’s all take a moment to pause, close our eyes, and send our love and strength to those affected by this awful fire, as well as the many other climate change-linked tragedies around the world.

At the same time as we watch these disasters unfold with increasing regularity, most of our leaders seem unable to grasp the scale of the problem. There are notable exceptions, like President Biden, who may not have a perfect record on climate change, but does recognise that we face a climate emergency and has invested vast sums into transitioning the US economy to clean energy (which has boosted the economy, reduced inflation and created jobs). He deserves far more praise and gratitude from the public than he gets.

Climate crisis = mental-health crisis

I’m sorry if this is reading more like an impassioned opinion piece than a mental-health blog post/newsletter – I am very passionate about this subject, as I think we all need to be right now. But I also think it is a mental-health issue, because so many people – especially the young, who understand climate change best and will be most affected by it – are incredibly anxious, stressed and depressed about our deteriorating climate, as well as the threat to wildlife and our natural world that climate change is causing.

And the real point of this post is to say: please don’t let climate-change anxiety overwhelm and paralyse you. That’s not good for you, but it’s also exactly what the fossil fuel industry wants. They want us to be so freaked out that we think, what can I do? This problem is far too big for me to change, so I will let the politicians work it out and keep flying multiple times a year, eating meat every day and driving my SUV.

In fact, things are far more optimistic than that, because small actions we all take can make a real difference to this big problem. We also know that taking compassionate action like this is hugely beneficial for our mental health, helping with problems like anxiety and depression, so it’s a win-win. I really don’t want to lecture or patronise you, because I’m sure you already do plenty and are trying your best, but a few suggestions would be:

• Eat less meat, especially beef and pork, which not only contribute to climate change but also Amazon deforestation (a key driver of deforestation is for industrial agriculture, using the land to grow soy beans to feed cattle)

• Swap your petrol or diesel car for a hybrid or, even better, electric car. Using more public transport, cycling and walking would also be great (and get you fitter too!)

• Fly less – perhaps once a year, for your family holiday. The vast majority of flights are taken by a small minority of people, so we can all make a difference by choosing a staycation or taking the train on holiday (which is also a far more enjoyable way to travel than flying)

• Use your vote to support the greenest party or politician wherever you live. And pester your politicians and government to do much more – like transitioning to net zero as quickly as possible

• Use your consumer power (something I think we massively underestimate) to pressure corporations into using less plastic, not buying meat or timber products sourced from the Amazon, and much more. Sadly, many CEOs only care about profit margins, so let’s hit them where it hurts, by boycotting the worst offenders and letting them know why we won’t shop with them until they improve

• And try supporting some of the many charities and pressure groups driving the green revolution, like Earthed, Possible, Avaaz, the WWF, 350.org, Extinction Rebellion, Just Stop Oil and Greenpeace, who you can donate to using the button below

As I said earlier, please don’t let climate-change anxiety overwhelm you. This is a solvable crisis and we have all the solutions we need, right now. We, as the global human family, just need to act on them. Let’s do so today to make this beautiful, miraculous planet a safe, green paradise for our children and every generation that follows them.

Sending you love and warm thoughts ❤️

Dan